Making Sure That Your Family Is On Board
Posted on Thursday, 13th November 2008 in GeneralMaking Sure That Your Family Is On Board
Unless you are single and childless, you will need to convene one or more family meetings to be sure that everyone is comfortable with your home business. After all, one of the key words in home business is “home” – and you are going to be changing the way that your family’s home operates somewhat. Although you could, technically, start a home business with no input from your household, it is not recommended. Other members of the household will need to honor your requests to work undisturbed, your need to work weekends or evenings, and perhaps give up some space currently used for other things.
Don’t forget that there is a huge difference between telling your spouse or partner, “I’d like to start a business some day,” and saying, “I am starting my own home business. Please look over my business plan.” You are serious now, and setting aside a separate time to discuss the matter is a clear indication that you are no longer merely dreaming. Here is how to talk about your ideas with the most important people in your life:
• First, sit down alone with your spouse or partner and discuss your desire to have a home business. You don’t have specifics right now, but you do have dreams—share those with him or her!
• Be willing to address reasonable concerns. For example, if your partner objects because you have no savings (a very legitimate reason), discuss what an acceptable level of risk might be. If he or she simply says, “It’s too risky,” and clams up, try to discuss the perceived risks. Ask for the specifics.
• Although you will be in charge of how the business is run, your family should have a say in how the business affects home life. Will you need to alter the quantity or quality of your time together? Your partner might be fine with that, but will insist that Sundays are “family day,” and no work will be done on that day of the week. One or two of these commitments should be okay, but if you are presented with a long list, explain that much of the business is unknown; then, ask for the one or two commitments that are most important.
• Starting and running a business is a 40-hour–plus endeavor for most people. Your spouse or partner needs to understand the time involved and respect your decision enough to work with you on issues such as who does the housework, who chauffeurs the kids, and so on. If you are currently a stay-at-home mom or dad, be sure that your spouse or partner clearly understands that housework and children are no longer your sole priorities and that you expect them to pitch in regularly, without being asked.
• Work through the rest of the information in this website with your spouse or partner. Most people who are starting a home business find that their spouse or partner can be a valuable built-in sounding board. Your partner is usually close enough to be concerned with your business success, yet far enough removed from daily business activities to offer an objective opinion.
• If the discussion becomes heated, don’t be afraid to seek couples counseling. As difficult as starting a business can be, it will be almost impossible if you are going through a breakup at the same time. Your children need to be prepared for changes resulting from your home business, too. If you are a single parent, sit down and talk with your child(ren) about what you are planning to do, and what it means to them. (If you have a spouse or partner, do this together.)
Just be as honest as you can, and don’t be afraid to say, “I don’t know.” If you approach the upcoming changes as a wonderful adventure, chances are your children will be more at ease than if you talk about how scary it is going to be. At the same time, be realistic in your discussion. Although you will want to let your children know about the positive aspects (such as a more flexible schedule), be sure that they know not to volunteer you for a class field trip right away! Provide them with examples of what this venture will mean in terms of your time, your availability, and any additional chores they might need to do.
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